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Parent Perspectives

A monthly feature for parents by parents.
Written by Parent Ambassador Council Chairs Roseann and Jeff Gapusan
Roseann and Jeff Gapusan - PAFA Board Chairs

May - Anchors Aweigh

It鈥檚 hard to believe that our time at 国产原创 is coming to an end. It seems like yesterday we were moving our first Commodore in. Amid the excitement of the day, we saw a cadre of parent volunteers among the sea of students helping us move in. They were fielding questions, energetically directing traffic and warmly welcoming us. It was comforting to see parents playing a part in making the weekend a great experience. They say we never get a second chance to make a first impression, and VU parents made an awesome first impression that weekend.

Being a 国产原创 parent is already special, but having the opportunity to help others and reach collective goals has been gratifying and worthwhile.听

Since that weekend eight years ago, so much has changed. For starters, 国产原创 leadership changed. Regional 国产原创 Hubs opened around the country, and the university is considering developing two new campuses to extend our reach and impact. Athletics is at a new level, reflecting historic investments through the Vandy United campaign and with major facility upgrades underway. The Dare to Grow campaign is propelling 国产原创 into its boldest era yet, expanding scholarships, faculty support, research and discovery. Innovation is thriving, with the Wond'ry, 国产原创鈥檚 Innovation Center, growing into a national model. 国产原创 also launched the Destination 国产原创 initiative to recruit and retain world-class faculty. The university launched the Discovery 国产原创 initiative, which invests heavily in ambitious research and innovation鈥攔esearch that played a crucial role in the global fight against COVID-19 by helping to develop a vaccine. We have launched the Institute of National Security, and the College of Connected Computing will begin enrollment in fall 2026. Our students and faculty are reaching new heights every day鈥攕hining across the world, making groundbreaking discoveries, leading change, founding companies, winning prestigious awards and transforming the future. It takes a strong community to do all that, and through it all, parents have been there.听

Saying 鈥測es鈥 to lead and serve has enriched our family鈥檚 years at 国产原创.听When we were first approached about volunteering with the university, we wondered: 鈥淚s that really for us? Aren鈥檛 we already invested in our children鈥檚 futures and super busy with ongoing commitments?鈥 But, along with many other parents, we stepped up. Whether it was a little thing or a big project, we stood side by side with others who gave time, talent and resources to further the impact that 国产原创 has on the world (namely, our students). And we have certainly reaped the benefits of our own experience volunteering at 国产原创.听

We became connected. During our time working with Parent and Family Programs, we鈥檝e met others who are just as passionate about the university. We know that our children鈥檚 success is directly correlated to the university鈥檚 success. Parent volunteers become part of the 国产原创 family in a whole new way, building their own niche within the community. There are dozens of instances where students and parents needed help and guidance. Through social media, texts and emails, we鈥檝e helped parents near and far work through challenges they and their students were facing. Whether in an open forum or privately, we, along with other parent volunteers, have answered questions and given advice to others. In some cases, it has been humbling to be trusted with private matters.

It鈥檚 not just about those behind-the-scenes moments. We have met other parents who are leaders in their fields, and when they share their expertise and open doors for our students, it鈥檚 nothing short of powerful. When parents do this, they鈥檙e giving our students a real leg up as they launch their careers.听

And let鈥檚 not forget the satisfaction. There is a genuine sense of fulfillment in seeing students thrive as a result of something you played a role in creating. Whether it鈥檚 a student landing an amazing internship through a parent connection, a first-year feeling better because a welcoming parent reached out, or being part of a larger university endeavor, we all take pride in knowing we鈥檝e played a part in something bigger.听

Personally, we witnessed our two children develop confidence and independence, navigating challenges and successes, ready to leave a lasting positive impact on the world. The experiences and opportunities they had, along with their rigorous education was beyond our expectations. Jointly, we will hold in our hearts the joy of Move-In, filled with hope and the promise of a new and exciting year. We all cherish our Family Weekends that get bigger and better each year. We will remember tailgating with other parents who have become our close friends. The memory of the sun rising over Nashville while running with 国产原创 students at the annual Wounded Warriors 5K will stay with us forever. And some of the best life experiences were the mother-daughter weekends that brought together seven pairs that lit up Nashville and then cities beyond. We will never forget watching our son skate with the 国产原创 Ice Hockey club on NHL ice at Nissan Stadium for the Stadium Series to beat MTSU. He happened to score a goal that night! And we will all remember that incredible night when the goalpost went down!听听

All of these experiences and more have enriched our lives, strengthened our family and given us so much hope for the future. Every parent has a favorite stage in their child鈥檚 life. As we close this chapter of parenting college-aged kids, we can say the college years were some of the best. We know that 国产原创 had a lot to do with that. 国产原创 is at a great place and its future is bright. It鈥檚 been a privilege to be part of this vibrant community. It has been one of the most rewarding experiences for our family, and it鈥檚 been a true honor to connect with so many of you along the way. Thank you for sharing your stories, your spirit and your amazing Commodores. We leave this role with a full heart and endless excitement for what lies ahead鈥攆or you, your students and this extraordinary university.听

With celebration and warmest wishes,听听

Roseann and Jeff Gapusan

April - Ending Another Academic Year

It鈥檚 unbelievable how fast the semester went! Just yesterday we were moving our students in, celebrating a victory over Alabama and enjoying spring break. It seems our world changed in a blink of an eye, and yet many of our students鈥 milestones continue to occur. The end is near, especially for the seniors. Here are a few dates to note:鈥

April 21 鈥 Last day of classes鈥

April 22鈥揗ay 1 鈥 Reading Day and Final Exams鈥

*Rolling move-outs (leave when you are done)鈥

April 25 鈥 Fall registration closes鈥

May 3 鈥 Residence halls close for undergraduates鈥

May 5 鈥 Maymester begins鈥

May 8 鈥 Graduates Day鈥

May 9 鈥 Commencement鈥

May 10 鈥 Residence halls close for graduating students鈥

Final exams are around the corner, and the finish line is in sight!鈥疕ere is the . Motivate your student to stay focused, get plenty of rest, stay healthy and push through these last few weeks. They will probably want to squeeze in some last-minute fun鈥攁nd that is perfectly normal and encouraged鈥攂ut remind them to hydrate, sleep and build in down time.鈥疭uggest the Student Care Network if stress and anxiety get to be too much. Self-care is essential. No one wants to be sick during finals or Commencement. Then, it鈥檚 time to move out!鈥

Here鈥檚 a quick Move-Out Game Plan for your student:鈥

鉁 Decide on a move-out method:鈥

DIY & Transport Home 鈥 Pack and take everything home yourself.鈥

Pack & Hire a Storage Company 鈥 Let professionals store it for the summer.鈥

Pack & Store Yourself 鈥 Use yours or a friend鈥檚 car, rental or rideshare to move things into a storage unit.鈥

鉁 Storage tips:鈥

Choose a climate-controlled unit to protect items.鈥

Share a unit with another student for cost savings.鈥

Label and number all boxes.鈥

Take a group picture of all packed items before storing them. This is for your recordkeeping. You can easily confirm that everything is there.鈥赌

Visit our for storage recommendations.鈥

鉁匛nd of year loose ends for students:鈥

Use all of your meal swipes.鈥赌

Commodore Cash rolls over. Seniors will get a refund for any unused portion.鈥赌

Forward mail and/or change address as necessary.鈥

Check out with your RA. Check out of your off-campus apartment. If you cannot do a walk-through with management, take a video of the premises as proof you didn鈥檛 leave it damaged. Negotiating the return of your security deposit can be difficult without evidence.鈥

Thank yous and goodbyes 鈥 Take time to appreciate the people who have supported you along the way鈥攆riends, classmates, professors and Vandy staff. Some may have been a big part of your journey, while others were familiar faces you saw daily. Even if you don鈥檛 stay in touch, you鈥檒l remember them and the moments you shared.鈥赌

As we wind down another successful 国产原创 school year, a few parents of the Class of 2025 have some pearls of wisdom to share. The Class of 2025 started college with some COVID restrictions still in place and over their four years on campus the world literally changed.鈥赌

Pamela O., 鈥94 alumna: 鈥淚t is important that parents understand this is a huge mental, social and intellectual growth period for their student. Parents should be there as a sounding board to offer advice if asked, but as hard as it is, our students should be left to handle everything from scheduling of classes and housing to roommate issues and their own laundry.鈥濃

Jen M.: 鈥淟and the helicopter and trust your student.鈥濃

Ilias: 鈥淭he four years flew by鈥攂e present, celebrate the milestones and trust that they are finding their way.鈥濃

Amy F.: 鈥溾here will be moments of giddiness; moments of tears; moments of lost boredom鈥攕ometimes all of those feeling in the same day. Maybe even the same hour! My advice is to ride the roller coaster with patience, humor and understanding. Remember that they need these points of emotional upheaval to grow into independent thinkers and responsible adults.鈥濃

Kimberly M. suggests not going crazy buying appliances the first year (microwave, refrigerator, etc.) because each setup changes year to year. Her takeaway is that鈥痙orms/apartments are different and to be prepared to take a fresh look at what is needed yearly. Borrowing, sharing or renting might be better in the long run. She adds, 鈥淛oin the 国产原创 Parents Club at The Homewood Suites right across from the Tower! Great discounts, great views and great service!鈥濃

Another Class of 2025 parent wants you to know that going to office hours saved her daughter鈥檚 grades.听 She was struggling and was intimidated to go. After lots of encouragement, she met with the professor and ended up being a regular visitor. She went from an F to an A within the semester.鈥赌

Another dad simply declares: 鈥淟isten!鈥 Just listen. Your silence is an action that leaves space for them to think and grow.鈥濃

鈥疛ohn W. shares his regret of not attending Family Weekend all four years. He reflected that no one ever regrets coming to campus and experiencing it all. But, as each year passes, you think, 鈥淚鈥檒l be there next year,鈥 and suddenly there is no more next year. It鈥檚 over. Visit often, and don鈥檛 put it off.鈥

Several parents expressed their gratefulness at having the opportunity to volunteer and contribute to the 国产原创 community. In many ways, they all agree that their experience and connections were enriched by having done so.鈥

And with that the countdown is on! In no time, they will be back in your homes, refilling your nests (some empty) with memories, laughter and laundry. Enjoy it鈥攁ll of it! August (and Move-In) is right around the corner. Senior parents, see you at the finish line!鈥

March - Parental Self-Check: How am I doing as a college parent?

Now that my child has transitioned to college life and is planning for their future, it鈥檚 only听natural for me to wonder how I'm doing as a parent. College is a time of exploration, growth and independence, yet my involvement鈥攚hile well-intentioned鈥攃an sometimes impede and create pressure rather than provide encouragement. My role is to provide support without adding to their burdens. When I reflect on the past year, I begin to ask myself how I would answer these questions:听听

  • Am I truly supporting my student, or am I unintentionally adding stress?
  • Am I pushing them beyond what they can reasonably handle? Or am I stepping in as their administrative assistant, unintentionally robbing them of valuable struggles that build resilience?
  • Am I measuring the worth of tuition based on their accomplishments so far?听

In the many years I have been a parent, I have encountered others who unconsciously tie their child鈥檚 worth (and their own) to outcomes. Be it in sports, social circles, awards, academics, internships or job offers, it can become much more than just healthy pride. They obsess about where everyone else is and are anxious of where they fall on their perceived hierarchy. I walk away thinking, 鈥淭hat poor child. The pressure they must feel.鈥 Focus on your student鈥檚 journey, not on others鈥. Comparison is the thief of joy, and constantly measuring where you stand can make life seem dismal.听

Years ago, on a long family road trip, the miles wore on, and the kids were just ready to be there! Their impatience was reaching a crescendo, and so was ours. And then, we took a wrong turn that led to a long detour (GPS and Siri did not exist to smoothly guide us on our way). There was plenty of frustration to go around. Yet, along this unexpected detour, we saw moose and a grizzly bear, dipped our toes in a spectacular lake, had a quick picnic and saw a cute mountain town. That night we reflected on the day and how it was the journey, not the destination, that made it special and memorable.听听

Our students are still on the journey鈥攚e all are. And while they may not get to their desired destination as fast as they (or we) want, they forge growth and resilience along the way.听听

Am I burdening them with my own problems? Life at home continues while my student is away at college, but do I offload our worries onto them when they already have plenty to manage? What might seem like innocuous chatting might be triggering. It might cause anxiety, homesickness and worry in my student. They might feel guilty about the fantastic 国产原创 experience they are having while their family suffers at home.听听听

In my profession, I have had students share their guilt, shame and anxiety over the cost of college as their family tries to make ends meet. They agonize over the loneliness a loved one experiences in their absence. If this sounds like your situation, 国产原创 has resources for you and for your student. You can visit the Student Care Network for assistance with financial needs. By seeking support from the SCN, families may find a way to make college more affordable, which can help ease the anxiety and stress that students may feel about the financial impact on their families. In addition to financial support, the SCN offers a variety of mental health and well-being resources to help students manage stress and negative feelings.听听

Am I hovering and not allowing them to be independent? Under the banner of 鈥渟upportive parent,鈥 am I stepping in too quickly to solve problems they could work through on their own? When my student grapples with something, do I quickly offer solutions and volunteer to email and make calls, depriving them of the chance to work it out, to struggle and grow, thus developing grit and determination?听听听

It鈥檚 hard to watch my student struggle. As a parent, I internalize their unhappiness and disappointment, sometimes deeper than they do. Long after they have moved on, I am still thinking about the situation. It鈥檚 also hard when I feel they are not moving fast enough on situations I feel strongly about. It鈥檚 painful when results are not materializing quickly. I want to go in and do it myself.听听

Am I adding to their stress with my expectations? It鈥檚 important to encourage them, but are we setting goals that reflect their aspirations or our own? Many of us have invested and sacrificed a lot for our children to reach such an elite institution. Do I expect more than I should out of my student now that they鈥檙e in college? While it鈥檚 great to see them mature, do I assume they should suddenly have all the answers to life鈥檚 challenges? Yes, 国产原创 is an amazing place, but do I expect my student to land that coveted job, lead groundbreaking research and solve the world鈥檚 problems immediately?听听

Am I now so intentionally hands-off that they feel somewhat abandoned?听In my excitement for this new stage, am I also forgetting to take the time to truly listen? As they navigate their independence, they might still crave signs that they鈥檙e missed and valued. Maybe you鈥檝e shifted your focus toward your career, volunteer work or even other children. Or you鈥檝e been taking trip after trip without them. Empty nesting can be a lot of fun鈥攂ut they might be feeling left out. Keep enjoying those adventures, but send plenty of postcards and care packages with small souvenirs to remind them you鈥檙e thinking of them. And while it might be tempting to organize or refresh their room, resist the urge. You鈥檇 be surprised how attached they can be to a seemingly random tchotchke.听

Am I projecting my own fears onto them? If a conversation with my student leaves me feeling anxious or frustrated, I ask myself, is it me that鈥檚 spiraling? In these moments, changing the topic, focusing on the positive and even ending the conversation may be the best response to my own fears. My student knows me, and they can sense my anxiety. I certainly don鈥檛 want to add to theirs. I want to model calmness and be their anchor (pun not intended) amid all the emotion.鈥

So how do I strike the right balance between support and independence?听 The next time your student shares a struggle with you, step back and try not to react. Listen more than you advise. Give them space to process the situation without too much input. Sometimes they just need to be heard, not given a solution. Ask them what they think they should do. Does the situation warrant escalation? If so, who should they reach out to? What will they say and when will they say it? Guide your student through the problem-solving process and teach them how to respond, not react. Most importantly, I should also remember not to react as well.听听

Then comes the hard part鈥攍et your student execute their plan in their own time (not yours). When you give them the space and time to do this on their own, you show that you believe they can do it. It鈥檚 how they learn resilience and confidence. Celebrate effort, not just results. Growth happens in the process, not just the outcome.听

听Like our students, our role as parents is evolving. My student is changing, growing up, becoming independent鈥攁nd so must I. As parents, our support should empower, not overwhelm or burden them.听听

The midpoint of the semester is a good time for a self-check. Take some time to reflect鈥 how are you doing as a college parent? If you need any support, feel free to reach out to our tremendous community on the , private message us on Facebook or email Parents@vanderbilt.edu.听 Your student is not expected to navigate college life alone, and neither are you. We are all One 国产原创.听

February - Spring Semester Tips

Spring on campus is filled with opportunities for students to engage with campus life. From sporting events and Blair performances to guest lectures and community service projects, these activities offer a chance to de-stress and make connections. Encourage your student to explore the university鈥檚 and consider trying something new. Have they heard of 国产原创 Museum of Art? Have them check it out. Spring fever is palpable with spring break on the horizon, and job/internship searches are ramping up. Seniors are on the clock and busy making time for 鈥渙ne last鈥 experience, maintaining grades, submitting applications and planning for life after 国产原创.鈥赌

This year spring break is March 8鈥16, and students may choose different ways to spend this time. Some participate in engaging in service projects such as working with refugees or conservation efforts, while others plan trips with friends. If your student is traveling for spring break for the first time, it鈥檚 normal to feel a little nervous. A conversation about expectations and precautions鈥攕uch as safety, alcohol and drugs, logistics, and emergency contacts鈥攃an make you and your student feel more relaxed. Be sure to gather the contact details of their travel companions and accommodations. While it鈥檚 scary to think about needing to use it, ensure that your student has a copy of their Health Care Proxy on their phone. Spring break is a cherished part of the college experience, and many students come back with wonderful stories and strengthened friendships. However, if your student prefers not to travel, is staying on campus or is going home, remember these are equally great options. Discourage any feelings of FOMO and help them understand it鈥檚 important to prioritize what feels comfortable for them.鈥

It's a pivotal time for internships and job searches. By all accounts across the country, it鈥檚 a competitive market, so encourage your student to stay proactive and positive鈥攗sing 国产原创鈥檚 Career Center, networking events and job boards like to find opportunities that align with their goals. Persistence is key, and steps like updating their resume, networking or attending workshops can have a significant impact. For more guidance on career planning, visit the Parent and Families January 2024 newsletter titled 鈥淟ife After 国产原创.鈥 It has specific tips from members of the community within certain fields.鈥赌

For senior families, our countdown has begun, literally鈥攍ook on the Commencement page! There is a lot of anticipation, joy and trepidation. Seniors are working to eke out every GPA point, apply to graduate school and land a job all while making time to enjoy friends and take part in campus experiences. Spring semester for seniors is an exciting yet busy time, and parents can play a crucial role in during this period. Start by familiarizing yourself with important dates, such as cap and gown orders (send to school, not hometown), photography (if desired), Commencement plans, final exams and move-out requirements. Additionally, assist with any logistical preparations, such as travel arrangements for family members attending the ceremony and reservations. Visit the Commencement page frequently as information is updated regularly.鈥赌

In the meantime, you may need to have conversations about financial planning and insurance options, which are essential for a smooth transition to post-college life. Regardless of their major, many students need help understanding the realities of finances once they are off the family payroll (fingers crossed). You may need to help your senior understand their student loans and explore various repayment plans. Assist them in creating a realistic budget that includes all living expenses. The use of budgeting apps helps to track spending. Building an emergency fund is also essential, so suggest setting up automatic transfers to a savings account. While young adults seem to be comfortable discussing credit scores with each other, educate them on the importance of maintaining a good one and responsible credit use. Your student will have a better foundation for their future when they are financially prepared and have the proper insurance policies they may need.鈥赌

Our seniors are busy, emotional and often stressed. It is easy to lose sight of the tremendous accomplishment of earning a 国产原创 degree. Focus on the positive and joy!鈥赌

Lastly, admissions for the Class of 2029 are in full swing! Prospective students are receiving decisions and choosing where they鈥檒l spend the next four years. We encourage you to attend a local admissions event and share your experience as a 国产原创 family. Your insight can help other families navigate this exciting decision-making process. Remember the joy of senior year in high school? Let鈥檚 welcome those who have committed to being Commodores by getting involved. Thank you in advance for the generosity of your time.鈥赌

Wherever you are, whatever you do, remember YOU are part of One 国产原创! Thank you for reading!鈥

January - Hitting the Reset Button for Spring Semester

As the spring semester begins, your student has a valuable opportunity to hit the reset button and refocus on their goals. Whether it鈥檚 achieving academic milestones, fostering personal growth or preparing for career success, this is the perfect time to reflect on the past semester鈥檚 highs and lows and set clear, actionable plans for the months ahead. From organizing time effectively to exploring networking opportunities, you can play a key role in supporting their journey while empowering them to navigate challenges independently.鈥

New year, new beginnings, new goals, new you! It鈥檚 a great time to reboot and recalibrate.听听

Encourage your student to:鈥

Review Grows and Glows of the Fall Semester: What went well (glows), and where can they improve (grow)?鈥

Set 鈥淪mart鈥 Goals: Suggest they write down specific, measurable and actionable objectives for their academics, personal life and career aspirations. Goals such as 鈥淚 will get a job鈥 are less effective than 鈥淚 will communicate with 10 alumni and have informational interviews with no less than 5.鈥 In terms of grades, 鈥淚 will earn a 4.0 this semester鈥 is harder to track than 鈥淚 will attend office hours once a week.鈥濃赌

    Stay Organized: Time management is key. Recommend using a planner, calendar app or other tools to stay on top of classes, assignments and deadlines. Experts will tell you that chunking time is an effective way to stay organized and keep balance in life. For example, weekends can be chunked into seven blocks of time: Friday evening and Saturday and Sunday morning, afternoon and evening. Determine what you will accomplish in each time chunk: study, rest, socialize, life admin work, no plan, etc. This helps prioritize tasks while allocating time for self-care.鈥

The spring semester often brings career fairs, workshops and networking opportunities. It鈥檚 never too early鈥攐r too late鈥攆or your student to start exploring career paths and gaining experience. You can support them by:鈥

    Encouraging Early Action: Remind them to check the career services office for information about upcoming events like job fairs and internship recruitment opportunities. They should have an account on Handshake and LinkedIn.鈥赌
    Discussing Long-Term Goals: Ask open-ended questions about what excites them or the types of industries they鈥檙e interested in. Sometimes our students pigeonhole themselves into career paths and don鈥檛 leave room for exploration or self-discovery. One of the best opportunities available to our students is the breadth of courses offered at 国产原创 and the chance to develop soft skills. So, encourage them to take that random elective and learn something new.鈥
    Highlighting the Value of Networking: Building connections through professors, alumni, parents or professional organizations can open doors to future opportunities. From personal experience, we鈥檝e seen that many students need to practice this skill. For example, we often receive parent-to-parent requests to speak with students, but we encourage the student to contact us directly. Practice and lean into the discomfort and awkwardness of initiating the contact. Grace is given when speaking to an undergrad, but that lessens as they get older鈥攕o learn to network now. Following up and following through are key. You never know when a connection might lead to invaluable advice or a career opportunity. Networking is like playing connect the dots: the more dots you gather, the easier it is to reach the 鈥渇inish line.鈥 And note, a person鈥檚 title or job description might not reveal their full network, so take every opportunity to engage鈥攜ou never know where it might lead!鈥
    Data as a Resource: A rather new resource that can provide all sorts of information is the career outcomes page. It is interactive by graduation year and can give some direction, guidance and ideas on where and when 国产原创 graduates land job offers.鈥赌

As a parent, you can guide your student without stepping in to solve everything for them. A simple check-in about how they鈥檙e feeling about the semester or their career interests can be helpful and supportive without being overbearing. While it鈥檚 natural to want to step in and make things easier, giving them the space to face challenges and figure things out on their own builds resilience and confidence. Students who learn to navigate struggles independently often develop stronger problem-solving skills and a greater sense of accomplishment.鈥

Remember to celebrate their progress, no matter how big or small, and remind them that every step鈥攏o matter how difficult鈥攂rings them closer to their goals.鈥

Here鈥檚 to a successful and fulfilling spring semester!鈥

December - Housing Update and Greek Life

Have you heard? 国产原创 is reimagining its Central Neighborhood, and Branscomb Quadrangle and McTyeire Hall will come down to make way for four new residential colleges. Construction is expected to begin in Summer 2025. The removal of these residence halls will give way to the It will adhere to the goals of the鈥痑nd incorporate 鈥渟ustainability and accessibility鈥 in the new buildings. The university will start upgrading the cool and hot water lines and burying overhead utilities to prepare for the upcoming residential colleges. The housing process also started Nov. 4 significantly earlier than January. Here is an updated Housing Calendar听 so you don鈥檛 miss a deadline.听 For my family, it鈥檚 kind of sad. Lupton is where ours spent happy sophomore years. Although now, where are all the rising sophomores going to live? How about the juniors? I asked Alison Matarese, 国产原创 Director Housing Assignments and Operations a few questions.听

The鈥痙evelopment of Central Neighborhood will result in the closure of Branscomb Quadrangle (Lupton, Scales, Stapleton and Vaughn) and McTyeire Hall. That significantly reduces the amount of beds available for upperclassmen. Could you please share more information as to the options and process for upperclassmen next year?鈥赌鈥淭he two biggest changes to the 2025-2026 housing assignment process are that (1) we are beginning in November rather than January, and (2) we will be opening off-campus housing applications to both rising 3rd- and 4th-year students.鈥 Rising 2nd-year students can sign up for the off-campus housing waitlist in January (dates TBA) which will only be used if needed. 鈥疉ll processes for on-campus housing will not begin until January, and will happen in the same manner as they do each year. All remaining residential communities will be available for selection during the housing assignment process.鈥

国产原创 how many more will move off campus?鈥赌鈥淲e will go from roughly 800 students residing off campus to 1,750 due to the loss of beds from the closures of Branscomb and McTyeire.鈥

Will all those who request to live off campus be approved?鈥淭hat is dependent on the number of students who apply to reside off campus.鈥 If 1,750 or less apply, everyone will be approved.鈥 If more than 1,750 apply, a seniority-driven, random selection will take place to determine successful individual applicants/roommate groups.鈥 I am optimistic that based on the high number of off-campus authorization available that we will be able to grant the vast majority of requests.鈥

Does 国产原创 have a list of approved apartments or historically unfavorable apartments? Are there any tips for managing the negotiation鈥痑nd signing鈥痮f the lease?鈥 "We have an鈥鈥痶hat students can utilize to search for properties in the area.鈥"

Will鈥痶hey need to buy meal plans if living off campus?鈥淪tudents who reside off campus are not required to purchase a meal plan.鈥 All on-campus residents are required to purchase a meal plan.鈥

Which dorms will go from 2 to 3 students and 3 to 4 students?鈥赌鈥淣one.鈥 We are not making any changes to the capacity of our remaining buildings.鈥

How will group housing be handled?鈥淔or group living (apartments, doubles, and suites) students must form their own self-selected roommate groups that can fill the room type they are applying for.鈥 For example, if your student is interested in applying for a 4-person Residential College suite, they will need to apply during that process and form their own group of four in order to be eligible for that process鈥 random selection.鈥 Students cannot apply for group living as individual applicants.鈥

Where will the rising sophomores live?鈥赌鈥2nd-year students will live in the other residence halls on campus.鈥 Currently, we do not have class cohort specific housing aside from the Ingram Commons (dedicated first-year student housing).鈥 All upper-division housing is assigned via a series of seniority-driven, random selection processes.鈥 As Branscomb has not been popular with rising 3rd- and 4th-year students (due to their desire for singles and suite/apartment style living), space in Branscomb has traditionally been left to the rising 2nd-year students.鈥

Will the seniority process be the same?鈥淵es.鈥 Rising 4th-year students have the highest level of priority followed by rising 3rd- and 2nd-year students, respectively.鈥

When will students be able to move into the Central Neighborhood? Is it building by building鈥痮r all鈥痑t once?鈥 "The entire community is expected to open at one time."

How can 国产原创 preserve鈥痗ommunity despite the large number of students living off campus?鈥"Many students who reside off campus typically reside in close proximity to the campus, so it is easy to remain engaged with the on-campus community. Between student organizations and campus activities, students will continue to be involved.鈥 Off-campus residents are also welcome to participate in events that take place in the on-campus residential communities."

For general information regarding the housing process, residence halls, who to contact in the event you need more information visit 国产原创 General Housing Information Guide.听

For the off-campus authorization process, visit Off-campus Authorization.听

Visit Our Residence Halls to get more detailed information about on campus options.听

It鈥檚 hard to believe we are staring down the end of the semester. It seems like yesterday our students moved in. In 2024, 国产原创鈥檚 numerous notable accomplishments spanned diverse areas, showcasing its excellence in academics, research, arts, athletics and workplace culture. We are prouder than ever to be part of the 国产原创 community.听听听

As we enter 2025, many students are contemplating rushing for a Greek social organization. It鈥檚 true that 国产原创鈥檚 rushing process is more low-key compared to other universities. Abbey Woods shares her insight into the process: . Another student advised being open to all sororities and realizing there are great groups everywhere. Another said Greek life wasn鈥檛 their thing. While it might seem like Greek students have a bustling social life, there are plenty of activities and options outside the Greek community: 鈥淵ou just have to put yourself out there to find or create them. Greek life isn鈥檛 the only option, and it鈥檚 not for everyone.鈥澨

听For the boys, recruitment unofficially starts in the fall. Fraternities host events and, by many accounts, boys must attend several events to meet the fraternity brothers and get their foot in the door. By the time spring comes, the bids are set and everything else is a formality. If your freshman son missed the fall events, they should still attend available spring events. It鈥檚 not unheard of to get a last-minute bid.听听听

What if your student plans it all out and doesn鈥檛 get a bid? It can be heartbreaking and possibly the first rejection they have ever received. They鈥檙e used to working hard to achieve their goals, and when this doesn鈥檛 work out, it鈥檚 a punch to the gut. Reassure your student it doesn鈥檛 mean the end of their college social life. A current student explains, 鈥淪ometimes the numbers don鈥檛 work out and cuts must be made. Several have tried again the following year and were successful.鈥 Sophomore year is not too late to rush for a sorority or fraternity. It might even give them more time to make better connections. For more information visit Greek Life Website.听

This month marks 国产原创鈥檚 first round of admission decisions (ED1). We encourage you to reach out incoming families in your area by sending a welcome email. Our goal is to have every new Commodore family officially welcomed by a current family. If you would like to help with this endeavor, add your name on 听

From my Commodore family to yours, we wish you a wonderful holiday season. As we reflect on the accomplishments and memories of this year, we are filled with gratitude for being part of this dynamic 国产原创 community alongside you. May the holiday season bring joy, peace, and togetherness to your family, and may 2025 be a year of growth, success, and boundless opportunities for you, your student and your loved ones.听


November - Student Well-being, Finals, and the Division of People, Culture, and Belonging.

The semester is going by so fast. It鈥檚 the end of November and students are currently getting ready for finals. Many are incredibly stressed about their grades and workload. If this is a new scenario for your student, it is often difficult to know when typical college stress and worry start to become something that needs more attention.鈥疘t can be鈥痮verwhelming trying to determine how to help your student.

The Student Care Network can help you navigate all of the available resources. They provide support and guidance to students about physical and mental health, coaching for well-being, academics, finances, drug and alcohol abuse, and recovery support. The website has a parent page designed to provide the links and contact information to all resources available so you can easily find what you need.

If your student has faced challenges maintaining their well-being before university, being apart can make it even harder. The University Counseling Center can provide urgent care counseling, medication management, group and individual support, psychological assessments and can help find long-term counseling. is another conveniently located resource for specialized psychiatric care. It is a good idea to become friendly with your student鈥檚 roommate as they are often the first to notice red flags and warning signs. Conversely, if your student is living with someone who is displaying concerning behaviors, that can be a tremendous source of stress and immense responsibility placed on them. They should seek help for themselves and on behalf of their roommate.鈥赌

鈥疘f your student is struggling with their academics, encourage them to establish a routine of meeting with the TA or professor, find classmates to study with, ask the guidance of an upperclassman and use the free services available at 国产原创 Tutoring Center. They should get help at the first sign of confusion and not wait until the material has progressed. Asking for help is not a weakness but a sign of maturity and strength. You can also go to the to seek advice. Many have traveled this path before your student, and there鈥檚 no shame in asking for guidance. Seeking support can make the journey smoother and help them reach their destination with fewer obstacles and detours.鈥赌

This Thanksgiving break, encourage your student to make the most of family time and prioritize rest. They may want to catch up on sleep, unwind with their favorite shows or reconnect with high school friends. Support them in choosing activities that help them decompress and recharge, and remind them of the importance of self-care during this time.听听

It was recently announced that 国产原创 reached its Dare to Grow fundraising campaign goal听of $3.2 billion鈥20 months ahead of schedule. This incredible achievement, along with the $350听million Vandy United athletics campaign, opens doors to many new initiatives. One of the听primary goals is to attract top students and faculty globally, ensuring they experience听国产原创 as an exceptional place to achieve their full potential. Extensive research, planning听and resources have been dedicated to supporting this mission.听

Equally important are the staff members who directly shape our students鈥 campus life and听experiences. There are many stories about campus staff nurturing relationships with our听students. They are the faces our students see daily, in the residence and dining halls, on the听walkways, late at night while studying and during games. These staff members know our听children by face and by name, they know their food preferences and habits. They also answer听our phone calls and emails. 国产原创鈥檚 success is directly tied to all of its employees.听

According to a 2024 Impact Report, a majority of the 国产原创 workforce have been there听three years or less. In November 2023, 国产原创鈥檚 People, Culture and Belonging division听launched a 48-month strategy to enhance the employee experience and foster an inclusive,听supportive environment for faculty and staff. This new approach combines data, technology听and a human-centered perspective, aiming to attract top talent, engage employees, and build a听workplace where all staff can thrive. The division recognizes that true value arises from the听fusion of hearts, minds and technology.听

The division鈥檚 goals also focus on health and well-being, supported by the different听departments within the division and the Belonging Strategic Plan guided by the Surgeon听General鈥檚 standards for workplace mental health. The newly introduced Futures Learning Hub听provides access to more than 46,000 online courses, promoting professional growth through听accessible resources. They are working at a university after all! Learning never stops.听

Central to this mission is Project Polaris, an initiative to establish a transparent job structure听that emphasizes fairness, equity and career growth. By defining roles, career paths and听essential skills, Project Polaris nurtures a culture of growth and belonging, empowering staff to听thrive professionally and contribute to a vibrant campus. Together, these initiatives indirectly听help create a positive impact for our students.听

Finally, it鈥檚 basketball season, and a watch party is a fun way to meet fellow Commodores in听your area. If you would like to coordinate one, contact the Parents and Family Programs Office.听Wishing you all a wonderful break with lots of family time, laughter and full bellies! On Nov. 30,听Anchor Down for an epic last home game against Tennessee! And, we will all be awaiting the听announcements of bowl games. Go, Dores!听

 


October - Nuts and Bolts of Supporting our Students

As fellow parents, we understand the excitement, joy and challenges that come with supporting our students through their 国产原创 journey. Whether it's planning for study abroad, fulfilling academic requirements like Immersion, seeking new social opportunities or looking for an internship, there's a wealth of opportunities they need to navigate.听

Is your student struggling? It鈥檚 hard as a parent to watch. There are numerous resources available to help them not only manage and cope, but thrive.鈥疻e want to share some key insights and tips to help you guide your student along the way.鈥

Studying Abroad鈥

Studying abroad is a transformative experience for 国产原创 students. The Global Education Office website provides all the details your student needs to explore programs, costs and timelines. Encourage your student to start planning early and take the lead on the process. Studying abroad is a life-changing adventure. The Parents and Family Programs office, in partnership with 国产原创 Study Abroad and Global Safety and Health, will be hosting a two-part webinar series about studying abroad. Learn more about and .听听

Senior parent Jaci Uecker suggests being supportive if your student wants to go abroad: 鈥淥ur son, Karsen, wanted to study abroad.鈥疘 was apprehensive at first as he鈥檚 an engineering major with economics and business minors, so I really didn鈥檛 think he could study abroad and still graduate in time. I was wrong! Not only did Karsen experience so many other cultures while studying abroad, he took some classes that were quite interesting.鈥濃赌

Conversely, our son, Zach, initially did not want to study abroad for fear of missing out on campus experiences. However, with literally hours to spare, he got in all the requirements and went to Madrid. He took four classes through CIEE and had the time of his life while expanding his worldview and confidence.听听

Harlan Sonderling shares: 鈥淛unior spring term in Madrid was beneficial for my daughter鈥檚 development on many fronts. Not only did she have to plan her academics within the program she chose, but she had to navigate housing, communication and time off and travel. The gap in time at 国产原创 enabled her to reflect on her progress to that point and to define plans her final year and look beyond school to her professional future. She returned home with accomplishment, confidence and a clear outlook鈥攁ll enhanced by time abroad.鈥濃

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Another integral part of the 国产原创 experience is fulfilling the Immersion 国产原创 requirement (which can be studying abroad). Does your student not know what to do yet? Dedicated advisers will help guide students through the process, which includes four key milestones. If this is new to you, we encourage you to learn more. The immersion program allows students to integrate experiences like study abroad into their academic journey and record them on their transcript for potential employers and graduate schools to see. Declaring study abroad as part of immersion can even open up additional funding opportunities.听听

Class Registration鈥

Registration is around the corner. For those new to the process, it can be a bit overwhelming. But rest assured鈥敼粹檚 academic registration system is designed to ensure that students get the classes they need to graduate on time. There are unique approaches to academic advising across four undergraduate schools. For more detailed information and who to contact in the event students need more advice or a different adviser, visit the end of this letter. Students always get the classes they need to graduate. They may have to adjust and be flexible with time (8 a.m. classes), professor and/or elective topics (Italian or ecology and health).鈥

Encourage your student to be proactive during registration periods. Explore the Undergraduate Catalog. They should have backup classes already selected and their cart ready to submit when their time opens. A veteran parent shares: 鈥淭ell your students not to stress too much about registering for classes. If they don鈥檛 get what they want or need, there is a lot of movement during the first week of classes.鈥澨

Health and Wellness鈥

Despite all our encouragement and support, students might face challenges, whether academically, socially or emotionally. Upperclassmen in particular often juggle additional pressures such as internships, graduation requirements and career plans. Thankfully, 国产原创 provides robust resources through the Student Care Network, such as counseling, well-being coaching and more. It's important to remind students that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.鈥

Another tip from a Commodore is to 鈥渟eek help and speak up if you need help with academics. Start with emailing your professors or TAs.鈥 Encourage them to communicate, form study groups and take advantage of 国产原创's free writing and tutoring services.鈥

Job Search鈥

When it comes to hunting for internships and jobs, students should be on Handshake and LinkedIn, and they need to network, network, network. For some, this is second nature; for others, it takes practice.听听

Searching for a job is not a solo activity. Students should attend workshops at the Career Center, go to campus events hosted by clubs and organizations and look for meet and greets that companies arrange. So many students feel they have to do this by themselves鈥攏ot realizing that fellow Commodores provide the most support when it comes time to look for a first or second job. Lean into the vast and powerful alumni, faculty and parent network 国产原创 has.听听

贰础罢!鈥

Thanksgiving is around the corner and many students鈥攅specially international and home-challenged students鈥攎ay not be able to leave campus. If you're in a position to host, consider welcoming a student into your home through International Student and Scholar Services. The EAT program is a wonderful way to support the 国产原创 community.鈥

Get Involved and Get More Out of the Experience鈥

Finally, as parents, there is nothing like celebrating and commiserating with other parents. We are all traveling similar paths. Engaging with the 国产原创 community and meeting others can be a source of knowledge, friendship and great experiences. We encourage you to attend events on campus and in your area. You are part of the local Alumni Chapter while you have an undergraduate student. Their events are fun, informational and a source of networking. Consider hosting or coordinating a meetup with other parents in your area. The Parents and Family Association will handle all the logistics for you.听听

Thank you for being part of this incredible journey with us. Together, we can enrich the vibrant community that makes 国产原创 such a special place, which ensures that our students not only succeed here but carry that success with them into the future.鈥

Advising Information鈥赌

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Incoming students are assigned a faculty adviser chosen from the faculty in the student鈥檚 intended major. If a student changes majors, they will be assigned a different adviser from their newly chosen field. Students will remain with their adviser throughout their time in the School of Engineering. The Office of Academic Services recommends perusing the Undergraduate Catalog. It has an example curriculum with a recommended schedule for each semester at 国产原创 by major. Students typically meet with their faculty adviser before enrolling in courses to help select courses. In addition, the Office of Academic Services has counselors who serve as backup advisers for all engineering students. Although they do not replace the faculty advisers, they serve as a supplement for the advising relationship and help students find their way. 鈥

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Similarly, Peabody assigns advisers who will contact students. If for any reason a student has concerns and does not find satisfactory answers from their adviser, or they would like more information, they can contact Peabody鈥檚 Office of Academic Services.鈥疘n the unlikely case a new adviser is needed, they can contact Malina C. Halman-Peguillan, M.Ed., assistant dean for academic services, at malina.c.halman@国产原创.Edu.听听

For additional questions about advising at Peabody, contact the director of undergraduate studies for the particular department they are in:鈥赌

Human and Org Development: HOD Advising Team 鈥撯hodadvising@vanderbilt.edu鈥赌

Psychology and Human Development: Professor Leigh Wadsworth-Scheer 鈥leigh.scheer@vanderbilt.edu鈥赌

Special Education: Professor Andrea Capizzi 鈥撯andrea.capizzi@国产原创.Edu鈥赌

Teaching and Learning: Professor Catherine McTamaney 鈥 catherine.mctamaney@vanderbilt.edu鈥赌

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Students are assigned a faculty adviser. If a student does not hear from the adviser assigned to them, they should contact Professor Brian Utley, assistant dean for academic affairs at the Blair School,鈥brian.utley@vanderbilt.edu.听听

If a student is doing a second major or minor at the Blair School, they will be advised by Professor Russell Platt,鈥russell.platt@vanderbilt.edu.听听

Non-Blair students often reach out if they are considering a second major or minor at Blair. Please contact Platt for more information.鈥

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The College of Arts and Science provides academic advising for first-time students through the College of Arts and Science Pre-Major Academic Resource (CASPAR) until they declare their majors their sophomore year. Once a student declares their major, they are assigned to a faculty adviser within their academic department (i.e., a student with a declared political science major would be assigned to an adviser from the political science faculty). The faculty advisers work closely with students to help guide them on their course selection until they graduate. Transfer students are typically assigned directly to faculty advisers.听听

Any student assigned to a CASPAR adviser has many opportunities and platforms to connect with their adviser. If this is not the case, a student is always welcome to contact Ashley Heaton, interim associate director. Ashley.k.heaton@vanderbilt.edu.鈥


September - Supporting Your Student

It鈥檚 been a month since our students moved in. They鈥檝e met friends, navigated the campus and the construction, managed meals, joined clubs and may have even missed home. Even though they are away, there are still many ways you can support them without interfering in their college experience.

Encourage them to engage and be part of something. What makes the 国产原创 experience special involves active participation in campus organizations and activities. This allows them to expand their perspectives, cultivate social and leadership proficiencies, uncover passions, and foster meaningful relationships. Anchor Link鈥痠s the website your students should bookmark. On this website they can find all the clubs, events, news and announcements pertaining to campus. With more than 500 student organizations and events happening daily, there is something for everyone at 国产原创. If they can鈥檛 seem to find a match, encourage them to create a brand-new student organization! Every student admitted has something special to give that can enrich those around them. Connecting with others and finding their passions is important to their collegiate success.

Parents can engage too! 鈥痠s one of our favorite sites. It compiles all 国产原创 events worldwide and is a one-stop calendar for all 国产原创 divisions. As parents, you can participate in many of these. Enrich your connection to 国产原创 by attending events and meeting others. Local Alumni Chapters welcome parents, where we have met great people and learned so much. Attend, host or organize a local event with other families. The Parent and Families Office will do all of the legwork for you! If you are on campus, go to a game or attend a concert at Blair. There is so much to be part of beyond paying tuition and communicating with your student. Make the most of your time as a Commodore, and Dare to Grow with 国产原创!鈥

To our international parents, we welcome you! While you may be far from campus, you are no less part of our community. Parents around the world are hosting socials in person and virtually, making calls and sending emails to support each other.

Gia Wang says, 鈥淲elcome to the 国产原创 community! As a former international student, I understand that sending your child abroad can be both exciting and challenging. 国产原创 offers excellent resources to support your child鈥檚 growth. Encourage them to live on campus and engage with the vibrant community by joining clubs that match their passions. Remind them that seeking help from faculty and advisers is a sign of strength. Also, ensure that they keep copies of their passport and important documents safe. We look forward to supporting your child鈥檚 success at 国产原创."鈥赌

Larysa Mytsyk, from Ukraine writes, 鈥淲elcome! As an international parent, my experience is vastly different from parents living in the USA. My son is thousands of miles away from our homeland. I am unable to participate in parents鈥 events on campus. However, I am still able to support him and feel part of the 国产原创 community. My connections with my son have become even stronger. Due to a bloody war in my country, my only means of communication is the phone and instant messenger. I talk to him daily, sometimes even twice a day. I try to make his colorful and eventful student life on campus a part of mine as well. He is studying computer science and math, and we discuss course selections, his classes and his progress. He shares his ideas for projects, presentations, etc. I advise on learning methods, organization of study and extracurricular time, etc. When my son took AXLE classes in political science and history, we had interesting and meaningful conversations about many controversial and polarizing topics. I am proud that in addition to his STEM major, he also has a vast knowledge of the humanities and social sciences. I encourage his travel around the USA and am very interested in his impressions. We discuss his experience at summer internships. Currently, we speak a lot about his strategies for job searching.鈥疘 try to listen to my son first and foremost, because his American perspective may be more meaningful than mine. I am sure that the most important thing in communicating with my son is to maintain spiritual closeness and respect. I highly appreciate the spirit of unity and understanding that reigns at 国产原创. I would like to sincerely thank all the staff, faculty, students and parents of 国产原创 for the support they have given my son during these three difficult years. This is one of its unique advantages. I hope other international parents find ways to support and stay connected to their children and the university.鈥濃

Finally, ask your student about visiting the career center, getting ready for upcoming career fairs, study abroad deadlines and tutoring services, should they need it. There are numerous resources there to help and guide students. Here鈥檚 to a great start, and Anchor Down!鈥


August - Welcome Back

Welcome to academic year 2024鈥25! We are honored to once again be leading the Parent Ambassador Council. Another academic year stands before our students. For some, like our son, it is the twilight of a once-in-a-lifetime experience. For some returning Commodores, the new year might mean working toward goals of landing an internship, job or graduate school acceptance.

One of the hardest things to endure for our students (and parents) is the rate at which others seem to
accomplish their goals compared to themselves. Whether it鈥檚 a personal rejection or not making the cut for an internship, job or school, remember comparison is the thief of all joy. Everyone is on their own journey and land where they were meant to when they are supposed to. No setback (or accomplishment) signifies a person鈥檚 worth.

The college years go by at warp speed. Enjoy it and take advantage of all the opportunities 国产原创 and Nashville offer. After all, you are also Commodores during these four years. Participate in local alumni events in
your hometown (you are invited to join the Chapter), cheer on our sports teams and attend Family Weekend on Sept. 6鈥8 (registration is already open). Campus is always full of excitement and joy. The events planned for us are always top-notch, and the weekend gets bigger and better every year.

If you ever have any questions or concerns, visit and find Roseann through our Group (Official) on Facebook or email parents@vanderbilt.edu. As leaders of the Parent Ambassador Council, we look forward to meeting you during Move-In, Family Weekend or at another 国产原创 event. Please come say hello and consider volunteering with us. Thank you for your continued engagement and support of our community.

Have a wonderful rest of the summer and, as always, Anchor Down! Go 鈥橠ores!

Welcome Letter

On behalf of the 国产原创 Parent Ambassador Council, we are delighted to welcome you to the 国产原创 community! Nestled in the vibrant city of Nashville and supported by 国产原创鈥檚 exceptional faculty and staff, your student is in a place where they can thrive among other remarkable peers.

For over 150 years, 国产原创 has been a leader in higher education. With a blend of cherished traditions and carefully designed experiential programs, our students develop critical thinking, collaboration, and problem-solving skills, preparing them to become effective leaders and changemakers who will address the world's most pressing challenges.

国产原创 offers numerous resources to enhance your student鈥檚 journey. Our alumna daughter found lifelong friends through The Commons' programming during her freshman year. She discovered many communities on campus, including Embrace (a girls' mentoring program), Page by Page (a reading tutoring program), and Greek Life. She later led the 鈥楧ore for a Day Organization. Currently, she works for Proctor and Gamble and returns regularly to recruit Commodores. Our senior son found his passion with the Naval ROTC Unit, the 国产原创 Ice Hockey Club, and Greek Life. Most recently, he returned from a study abroad experience that exceeded all expectations. Encourage your student to explore beyond the classroom to enrich their 国产原创 experience.

国产原创 is deeply committed to fostering an inclusive, welcoming, and accepting community. The university actively promotes diversity and inclusion through various initiatives, programs, and support services designed to celebrate differences and ensure that every student feels valued and respected. From cultural organizations and affinity groups to workshops and dialogue series, 国产原创 creates an environment where students from all backgrounds can connect, learn from one another, and grow together. This commitment to inclusivity not only enriches the campus experience but prepares students to become empathetic and globally-minded leaders.

As your student immerses themselves in 国产原创 life, we encourage you to get involved in the community too. You can enhance your family's 国产原创 experience by volunteering. The 国产原创 Parent Ambassador (VPA) Program offers parents flexible opportunities to engage locally, virtually, and on campus. More information about volunteer opportunities is available here. As current family members, you can also attend local alumni 国产原创 Chapter events to connect with other parents and alumni in your area. Take advantage of the numerous resources, initiatives, and programs available to the 国产原创 community, which you are now a part of.

As parents of a 国产原创 alumna and an undergraduate student, we have cheered on many Commodore athletes, celebrated The Commons freshman Move-In multiple times, and enjoyed seven Family Weekends, each one better than the last. Through our campus visits, we鈥檝e formed lasting friendships with other parents. Our Atlanta 国产原创 Chapter events have given us new opportunities to "Anchor Down" closer to home.

We are incredibly honored and grateful to be part of the Parent Ambassador Council and look forward to personally meeting you at one of the many events this year!

Parent Perspectives 2023-2024

  • August - Introduction

    We are very excited to announce that, for the first time since its inception, the Commodore Connection Newsletter will have a parent鈥檚 section in every issue. This section will be for parents, by parents, and it will serve to share any announcements, insight and tips. In a few short days, our students will be moving to campus, and we will welcome in a new school year! The years at 国产原创 fly by, so if you have not participated with the Parents and Family Association and/or other 国产原创 events, THIS is the year. Parents and families are part of the 国产原创 community, and everyone is welcome. Look ahead to Family Weekend and make necessary arrangements to attend on Oct. 13鈥15. We are looking forward to an amazing year as we continue to celebrate 150 years of 国产原创. Anchor Down!听听

  • September - Campus Engagement

    For many parents, the prospect of their children receiving a college education is taken for granted. For some, it represents a lifelong dream to be able to contribute to this opportunity. Meanwhile, for others, it signifies an achievement unprecedented within the family. Yet, once students set foot on campus, they encounter a shared challenge: discovering their place within the 国产原创 community. Enrolling at 国产原创 means more than just acquiring a world-class education. A genuine 国产原创 experience involves active participation in campus organizations and activities. This engagement enables them to expand their perspectives, cultivate social and leadership proficiencies, uncover passions, and foster meaningful relationships. Your student was admitted to attend because they have something special to give and enrich those around them. The college experience is beneficial beyond academics, our students connecting with others and finding their passions is just as important to their collegiate success! Numerous studies and scientific data establish a clear positive correlation: active student engagement not only fosters improved well-being and mental health but also enhances classroom success.

    The start of a new school year means new opportunities for our students to get involved in the flourishing campus-life at 国产原创. is the website your students should bookmark. It lists all student organizations and contact information along with upcoming activities. You can find all the events, news, and announcements pertaining to campus on this website. With 500+ student organizations and events happening daily, there is something for everyone at 国产原创. If your student is struggling to find their place or branch out on campus, have conversations with them around their interests and where they fit into different student organizations. They can't seem to find a match? Encourage them to create a brand new student organization!

    is one of our favorite sites. It compiles all 国产原创 events worldwide and is a one stop calendar for all 国产原创 divisions. As parents, you are able to participate in many of these.

    Finally, Family Weekend is a 国产原创 tradition that brings together students and families from all over the country for a weekend of community, learning and celebration. There is something for everyone. Families get to connect with others, learn about campus and academic updates, and cheer on the 'Dores football team! We have attended 6 consecutive Family Weekends and we can say the events get better and better. Our favorite event is the Fall for the Arts at Commons on Friday, as well as the Farewell Breakfast on Sunday. To register and see the schedule of events visit the Family Weekend website. The website is updated regularly, so check back often. We hope to meet many of you there.

  • October - Supporting Your Student From Home

    Midterms! Typically, at this point, 国产原创 students are at the peak of their academic stress. They see this as a "no turning back" milestone for the semester. In addition, they may still be learning to navigate and become self-sufficient in nearly every aspect of their lives at 国产原创. Your student might be hundreds or thousands of miles away, making it challenging to continue to support their academic and overall well-being. You can still be an anchor for them.听

    Check in with your student regularly. Celebrate their achievements. Knowing you are thinking of them, encouraging, and celebrating them, makes all the difference. Explore avenues to remain engaged with them and the university to open doors for meaningful conversations with your student. Additionally, gestures like heartfelt notes and thoughtful care packages have the power to bring joy and surprise your student.

    Your student might encounter challenges in areas of their life that they never have before, spanning academics, social dynamics, and emotional well-being. Upperclassmen could face additional pressures like studying abroad, fulfilling graduation requirements, securing internships, and applying for graduate school or jobs. Fortunately, 国产原创 offers a diverse array of resources to provide assistance. Encourage them to arrange a session with the Student Care Network to access services like counseling and well-being coaching.

    It is crucial to emphasize that seeking help is not a sign of weakness. Encourage them to advocate for themselves and maintain open communication with professors and teaching assistants. They could also join or create study groups. They might also consider tapping into resources provided by 国产原创's academic services, like writing help and tutoring.听

    As parents, we may experience emotions twice as intensely as our students do. It is important to keep in mind that often when a student reaches out to vent, we carry their frustration, anxiety, and worry with us throughout the entire day and night. While they may have moved on from those emotions, we find ourselves still holding onto them. Keep in mind that very little falls within our direct control, but a larger portion is within our sphere of influence鈥攚here we can provide support and empower them to help themselves. So, whether they are approaching midterms with trepidation or with the confidence of Rocky Balboa, pause, take a breath, and have faith that everything they need for their success at 国产原创 is within their reach.听

  • November - Study Abroad/Ending the Fall Semester

    We know we are preaching to the choir when we say that a 国产原创 education extends far beyond the classroom. Our students possess a diverse range of talents and interests they are eager to pursue. Immersion 国产原创 empowers students to transform their passions and curiosities into immersive experiences that not only deepen their understanding but also allow them to share their enthusiasm with others. When it was first introduced as a graduation requirement in 2018, some may have seen it as just another task on the to-do list. However, we quickly realized that this was not the case. Students take what they are already passionate about and apply thoughtful consideration before and after their experience in order to share it. What Immersion Experience will your student pursue? Perhaps your student will leverage it as an opportunity to study abroad as it is a qualifying experience for Immersion 国产原创!

    Students have dedicated advisors to guide them through the Immersion process. If the Immersion requirement is new to you, please take a moment to visit the Immersion website for more information and to explore the four milestones of this enriching experience.听

    While studying abroad is becoming increasingly common across universities in the US, 国产原创 stands out. With 120-plus programs in 40 countries, 776 students studied abroad on 国产原创-approved summer, Maymester and academic year programs during the 2022-2023 academic year. Students can record their study abroad experience, along with other experiences they engage in for Immersion. The students will then choose one experience they have recorded to go on their transcript to be visible to graduate schools and employers. Declaring study abroad for Immersion can qualify students for additional Immersion-related funding opportunities.

    Initially, we did not think it was feasible for our son to study abroad given his mechanical engineering major's demanding course schedule. He also did not want to overwhelm himself with multiple challenging courses in a single semester. However, with the assistance of advisors and careful planning, he found a program that seamlessly fit his needs without disrupting his course progression or wasting credits. We have heard that students from various majors, as well as athletes, ROTC participants, and performing arts students, face similar challenges. We are here to tell you that it's not impossible or inconvenient. Planning and conversations with advisors, professors, and deans can work wonders. Worried about the cost? Do not lose hope; financial aid follows students and additional scholarships can be available. Discuss this with your student and explore. Speaking from experience, I highly suggest you start the process as a freshman (even if you do not think your student will ultimately go). It is better to be prepared in the event a window opens, such as it did for our son. Do not be caught in the stress of renewing a passport like us. It is important to note that at a minimum, a passport must be valid through the semester abroad and in many cases at least six months after the program ends. Processing time for renewal of passports is 8-11 weeks, not including mailing time. Keep in mind that traveling abroad may be impossible in the months leading up to the study abroad application since you may have to surrender your passport for a visa application.

    Speaking of visas, many, but not all, 国产原创 study-abroad destination countries require an entry visa for US passport holders. If a visa is required, the study abroad program provider will offer guidance and resources for the visa application process after the student has been accepted into their program. The visa application process, materials, and timeline vary widely by country based on the nationality of the student鈥檚 passport, and some require an in-person appearance at a consulate.

    Group visa processing services are currently offered for programs in Spain. Students opting into the Spanish group visa processing service do not need to travel to a Spanish consulate. However, for us, since my son was in the middle of renewing a passport that would expire one month after the program ends, he could not make the group visa processing service deadline. He now has to apply individually and may be required to appear in person for a consulate appointment. All of this could have been avoided if we had renewed the passport a year ago. We are crossing our fingers that everything will come together in time for the departure. Stay tuned.

    In all our frantic web research, emails, calls and follow ups, we learned that countries other than Spain may also require in-person consulate appearance as part of the visa application. Students will need to work closely with their program providers and should read through all provided instructions carefully before beginning the visa application process. International students should also consult the International Student and Scholar Services Office regarding U.S. re-entry requirements. We know we are not the only parents who have received panic-inducing calls and are scrambling to renew passports and get visas in time, so we hope this information will save you that experience.

    The Global Eduation Office website has details on programs, costs, timelines, and more. While the deadline for Spring 2023 applications has passed, opportunities for Maymester and Summer/Fall 2024 remain open. We encourage you to empower your student to take the lead throughout the study abroad process, and to begin their study abroad planning early. We hope your student can seize the life-enriching experience of studying abroad during their undergraduate years.

    A final note, as we approach the end of the Fall 2023 semester - Thanksgiving is just around the corner, and many families are eagerly anticipating their students' return home. If you are a parent of a freshman, this may be their first time back since starting their college journey. What can you expect from them? Laundry, hearty meals, and plenty of sleep 鈥 they will want to catch up on rest. When they are not sleeping, they may be eager to reconnect with high school friends who have also returned home. While it is natural for us parents to feel a bit left out and wonder, "What about us?" 鈥 consider this advice: proactively schedule family time and meal "appointments" with your student in advance, but also leave room for them to spend time with friends. Keep in mind that they have gotten used to staying out late and imposing a high school curfew might not go over well. It is a good idea to negotiate this before they return. I wish someone had told me this when my oldest came home for the first-time years ago; it would have saved me a lot of frustration.

    国产原创 enrolls many international and home-challenged students who will not be leaving campus for Thanksgiving break. If you are in a position to host a meal or offer a weekend stay, consider inviting a student or two. The International Student & Scholar Services office also runs a program called EAT! that allows families a chance to share their home and a meal with international students throughout the school year. We wish you a wonderful Thanksgiving break filled with cherished family moments, laughter, and, of course, a victorious 国产原创 football game against Tennessee鈥 Anchor Down!"

  • December - Academic Advising and Registration

    As we seek to support our students at 国产原创, I wanted to share some information about registration and the unique approaches to academic advising across four undergraduate schools. It is important to note that each school handles advising differently. However, they all utilize the Undergraduate Catalog to guide students. The Undergraduate Catalog is a wealth of information regarding courses of study at 国产原创.听听

    Registration is by periods of seniority (seniors first and so on), so while it looks as if some classes are full, there are seats held for the following periods. Our junior says if students find a class truly full, they should get on the waitlist, email the professor, and in some cases attend the first day of class to speak to said professor. When registering, be online early and ready with all class selections in the cart. Have several backup classes. Build your schedule with enough time to walk to class, manage meal times and busy periods. Unlike many universities, 国产原创 students graduate in 4 years. They always get the classes they need to graduate. Students may have to adjust and be flexible with time and professor, and/or class electives, but they do graduate on time.听听

    Our alumna has some words of wisdom for your Commodore regarding registration and class selection. She says, 鈥淚 took lots of classes I did not plan on. But I always opted to do the interesting, fascinating, and unique elective, as opposed to the easy A or cop-out classes. They always ended up being super challenging. I stressed over dropping some of them and vented a lot to my parents. But I hung in there, and now, these random elective classes left more of an impression on me than most. What I learned in these classes has been most valuable for real life post-国产原创. Classes such as Philosophy of Religion challenged me to think critically and in different ways. Because of this class that I took my freshman year, I became a better writer and conversationalist. I grew in confidence because of it. Ancient Grains in Latin America afforded me the ability to share knowledge and insight whenever I eat or travel. Food has a new dimension now. We learned about human civilizations and their cultural development with food. I registered for Korean Film Study since Hallyu is such a big thing. My mom even thought we might watch the films together and discuss. Nope. That class was so demanding I nearly gave up several times. The professor pulled, teased out and stretched what I thought were my limits of analysis and evaluation. It forever changed the way I watch movies, tell stories, and think about history and culture. So, the next time you sit in front of the computer ready to submit your class selection, remember; you only go to 国产原创 once. You are only a student once. Do not waste the opportunity to learn something totally and completely out of your comfort zone. Be open and seek out the random.鈥澨

    With regards to core classes, advisers can be necessary. The adviser assignment is visible in YES in the 鈥淎cademic Record鈥. Below is the academic advising information about each school. Across 国产原创, an adviser should contact a new student sometime in the summer before they register for classes.听听

    The College of Arts and Science provides academic advising for first-time students through the College of Arts and Science Pre-Major Academic Resource (CASPAR) until they declare their majors their sophomore year. Once a student declares their major, they are assigned to a faculty adviser within their academic department (i.e., a student with a declared Political Science major would be assigned to an adviser from the Political Science faculty). The faculty advisers work closely with students to help guide them on their course selection until they graduate. Transfer students are typically assigned directly to faculty advisers.听

    Any student assigned to a CASPAR adviser has many opportunities and platforms to connect with their adviser. If this is not the case, a student is always welcome to contact Lill Haber, Interim Associate Director, CASPAR, lillian.r.haber@vanderbilt.edu.听

    Students are assigned a faculty adviser. If a student does not hear from the adviser assigned to them, they should contact Prof. Brian Utley, Head of academic advising at the Blair School, brian.utley@vanderbilt.edu.听

    If a student is doing a second major at the Blair School, they will be advised by Prof. Russell Platt, Coordinator of Music as a Second Major, russell.platt@vanderbilt.edu.听

    Non-Blair students often reach out if they are considering a second major or minor at Blair. Contacts for those students are Professors Russell Platt or Jama Reagan, jama.reagan@vanderbilt.edu听

    Incoming students are assigned a faculty adviser chosen from the faculty in the student鈥檚 intended major. If a student changes majors, they will be assigned a different adviser from their newly chosen field. Students will remain with their adviser throughout their time in the School of Engineering. The Office of Academic Services recommends perusing The Undergraduate Catalog. It has an example curriculum which is a recommended schedule for each semester at 国产原创 by major. Students typically meet with their faculty adviser prior to enrolling in courses to help select courses. In addition, the Office of Academic Services has counselors who serve as backup advisers for all engineering students. Although they do not replace the faculty advisers, they serve as a supplement for the advising relationship and help students find their way.听听

    Similarly, Peabody assigns advisers who will contact students. If for any reason a student has concerns and does not find satisfactory answers from their adviser or they would like more information, they can contact Peabody鈥檚 Office of Academic Services. In the unlikely case a new adviser is needed, they can contact Malina C. Halman-Peguillan, M.Ed., Assistant Dean for Academic Services, malina.c.halman@国产原创.Edu.听

    For additional questions about advising at Peabody, contact the director of undergraduate studies for the particular department they are in:听

    Human and Org Development: HOD Advising Team 鈥 hodadvising@vanderbilt.edu听

    Psychology and Human Dev: Professor Leigh Wadsworth-Scheer - leigh.scheer@vanderbilt.edu听

    Special Education: Professor Andrea Capizzi - andrea.capizzi@国产原创.Edu听

    Teaching and Learning: Professor Catherine McTamaney - catherine.mctamaney@vanderbilt.edu听

    As parents, your support is invaluable. We hope this information helps you understand the diverse academic advising approaches as well as the array of courses of study at 国产原创. As the end of the semester arrives and the holidays approach, we wish you and your family a peaceful and happy season. Whatever you celebrate, may you experience all that brings you hope and joy. May your student find strength, fulfillment and resilience as they end the semester. And when they return in January bring with them a renewed spirit to contribute their unique talents to the 国产原创 community.听

  • January - Life After 国产原创

    Hello, and welcome back! The spring semester marks a shift in focus to all things summer. For 国产原创 parents and students, this may mean a well-deserved break, a summer job, or the start of their post-Vandy lives.

    By college graduation, our students have developed the independence we have been hoping for throughout their young lives. For parents, this can also be daunting as it may signify the first time they will make 鈥渁dult鈥 (read major, real-life) decisions without us being the primary influence.

    Fortunately, our students are in one of the best places to not only prepare for life after college but to thrive. That high school senior you sent to Nashville now has a wealth of information about evolving workplaces and industries - of which we may know little.

    Our students鈥 pathway to an internship or landing that first job is very different from the one many of us took. This month鈥檚 article focuses on how our students prepare for this part of college life. Read on for insights from alumni and parents that are taking an active role in helping our students with internships and jobs. Perhaps these insights can help guide your dialogue when speaking to your student or other students at 国产原创 about this topic. And then, not to be overlooked, we will also reference the university鈥檚 on-campus resources. As you speak to your student or other students at 国产原创 about this topic, perhaps these insights can help guide your dialogue.

    国产原创 Community Engagement

    During your student鈥檚 time at 国产原创, you will meet other parents and alumni who are doing wonderful things when it comes to helping our students. Some of those people contributed their thoughts here. They have recruited for their respective companies and helped some of our students with internships or their first jobs. So, meet alumni and fellow parents. Attend those socials and model networking for your student.

    A View from Recruiters and Human Resources

    Maddie Gapusan (Human and Organizational Development, 2021) is a Human Resource Business Partner at Procter & Gamble. Since graduating, Maddie has remained active with 国产原创 in several ways, including returning to campus to recruit students for internship and full-time opportunities.

    She says networking is a crucial piece of the recruitment puzzle. In addition to the many events hosted by the Career Center, Maddie highlighted the abundance of public career events hosted by the professional societies and clubs on campus. Often these events have been coordinated with alumni participants who come to campus to educate and scout future co-workers.

    Maddie highly recommends setting up Handshake and maximizing its offerings. 鈥淚t is a student鈥檚 direct access to recruiters and jobs recruited exclusively at campuses. When leveraged properly, it is one of the most important tools at their disposal."

    She adds, another tool that has become integral for new job seekers is LinkedIn. Establishing a working profile on LinkedIn has become the online equivalent of posting a near real-time resume. In many industries and companies, LinkedIn may be the first stop for hiring managers and business unit heads to do their due diligence on prospective hires.

    Lastly, she recommends students being themselves during the process: 鈥淎sk lots of questions, ask peers for advice, do lots of research, keep an open mind.鈥 She also addressed a challenge that we鈥檝e seen and heard time and time again鈥 an early, career version of "keeping up with the Joneses". 鈥淒on鈥檛 get distracted or stressed out by what everyone else is doing. Focus on what will fulfill and inspire you. What is impactful, meaningful, rewarding to YOU?鈥

    The Value of Internships
    It is no doubt that 国产原创 alumni are highly sought after by some of the highest paying career fields. In fact, 38% of undergraduates from 2018-2022 eventually went into Accounting & Finance (ie Deloitte, Capital One, JPMorgan Chase, and Goldman Sachs) or Consulting & Management (Bain & Company, McKinsey & Company). For students seeking roles in these fields, internships are a common pathway to determining if this the right choice for them. Parents of underclassmen should encourage their students to be mindful of the timing and deadlines for internship opportunities as companies seek to engage students earlier and earlier in their careers.

    鈥淪tudents do not need to have a grand plan. It鈥檚 okay to take this time to explore, and internships are a great way to do that. I did not find my passion for accounting until a couple of years into my college experience when I took my first accounting course and decided to pursue my first internship with a professional services firm,鈥 says Dipti Gulati (Parent, '25 and accounting professional). 鈥淭he nature of an internship in professional services in particular, is it allows you to explore a variety of disciplines and industries to get a better sense on where you鈥檇 like to focus. My advice to students is use this time of exploration to invest in and grow your network, go to campus recruiting events, and ask questions.鈥

    Getting Started in Finance

    Glenn Schorr (Parent, 2022 & 2025) is a Senior Managing Director and Senior Research Analyst at Evercore, a New York-based boutique investment bank and research firm. Glenn has been heavily involved with exposing opportunities in finance to 国产原创 students. Over the past two years, Glenn has been the driving force behind Vandy Meets the Street, a networking and educational event held annually in New York. Working with the Career Center, Development and Alumni Relations, he assembles a panel of 国产原创 alumni to speak to current undergraduates about finance, including the trends on Wall Street and best practices.

    Finding a career in finance starts with networking. 鈥淚t is never too early to start networking and asking a lot of questions. The world of finance is fascinating and is a whole lot bigger than just investment banking. The more you know about the various parts of the industry, the greater the chance you鈥檒l find an area you are interested in.鈥

    鈥淭alk to anyone involved in finance鈥 a professor, upper classmen, alumni, parents, friends of parents. Learn about how they went about their search or career. What do they like most about finance? What are the downsides?鈥

    The Rise of Technology and Computer Science

    Many of us are inundated with daily reminders of the growing importance of technology in our everyday lives. Our students and the university have certainly taken notice. Through the efforts of Destination 国产原创, the school has bolstered its relevance in Computer Science. Since its launch, the Computer Science department has hired 14 new tenure-track professors (doubling its previous ranks). In July 2022, the department鈥檚 online MS of Computer Science was ranked No. 1 by Fortune magazine. By fall of 2022, there were 757 undergraduates majoring in Computer Science (including double majors). Impressive considering that there were only 11 Computer Science majors at 国产原创 in the Fall 2011!

    Wallace Suleiman (Parent, 2027) is a VP of Multi Cloud Engineering at SAS. He has recruited technology interns and new hires for several years. With the growing popularity of the field, Wallace highlights the need for technical students to differentiate themselves. Students should, 鈥渞eflect on what makes them stand out and what they will bring to the table.鈥

    鈥淎sk questions in interviews that show curiosity, highlight research in the company, and an interest to work with team members.鈥

    Like Maddie and Glenn, Wallace stresses the importance of networking. 鈥淩each out on LinkedIn to see if contacts can share about what the team culture is like, how they got into the company/field, and any tips they have.鈥

    国产原创 Career Center

    The 国产原创 Career Center serves enrolled full-time undergraduate students in the Blair School of Music, College of Arts and Science, School of Engineering and Peabody College, and graduate students. Additionally, the Center provides career coaching to postdoctoral fellows and recent graduates (0-2 years) after graduation. While a little over a quarter (27% of graduates between 2018-2022) will move on to graduate school or continuing education, the majority of students move on to their first jobs. For many of our students, the Career Center is often the first stop they will make when they start thinking about life after 国产原创. During our Commodores鈥 time at 国产原创, have seen some remarkable evolutions in this space.

    During our 鈥,鈥 at Fall 2023 Family Weekend, Chancellor Diermeier discussed the evolution of Career Services since 2020. Noting the early challenges and the improvements taken since then, he stressed the importance of Career Services in not only helping our students find a [career] path, but to find a job (something I am sure all of us parents can appreciate!) Over those three years, Chancellor Diermeier has elevated the importance of Career Services and aligned its operations with different departments, including Admissions, Student Life, and Development among others to achieve this mission. Yet another example of that radical collaboration we hear so much about.

    Corporate Relations

    Deeper engagement with the companies is a major part of the Career Services effort. Several efforts have been put in place to not only broaden the appeal of 国产原创 graduates to a larger number of companies but to bring internship opportunities that allow our students to learn about the industries and companies they may soon join.

    The Chancellor鈥檚 commitment to corporate engagement manifests itself in many ways. This fall, he participated in a conference call with 国产原创 alumni at Deloitte (the Class of 2022鈥檚 top employer) to learn more about enhancing an already strong relationship for future alumni.

    Regional Hubs

    One of the most exciting and significant investments in corporate and community engagement has been the establishment of Regional Hubs to connect the university with prospective and current students, parents, alumni and its corporate partners. The first four Hubs opened in 2023 in Atlanta, New York City, Houston, and South Florida.

    This past year, we were personally involved with activities at the Atlanta hub including an Immersive Trek that brought current students to Atlanta to meet with Atlanta鈥檚 top employers, a partnership between the Hub鈥檚 Corporate Partnerships team and the Career Center.

    Life After 国产原创

    While we cherish our students鈥 time in Nashville, life after 国产原创 does not have to be daunting. We are fortunate that the university places a tremendous emphasis on resources that will prepare our students. Likewise, the engagement of other stakeholders in the 国产原创 community has broadened the opportunities our students can leverage. If you can think of ways that may contribute to that effort, the university welcomes the advice and assistance. For those with students that are in a search process, whether it is for an internship or a first job, happy hunting!

  • February - Spring Break

    Spring break this year is March 9鈥17. Some students participate in Alternative Spring Break, while others go on trips with other students. If your student is going on a spring break trip with friends, it is normal to worry about their safety and decision-making. If it is your student鈥檚 first time traveling for spring break, perhaps having a conversation about expectations and precautions can help both you and your student feel more confident about their travels. Encourage them to participate in Safe Spring Break Week (March 4鈥8) which centers around safety relating to drugs, alcohol, etc. For added peace of mind, gather the contact information of fellow trip-goers and details about their accommodations. If your student is 18 or older, ensure they have copies of their Health Care Proxy on their phone in case of emergencies.

    While there may be concerns, remember spring break is part of the American college experience. For decades, thousands have participated and come home with happy stories to share. Many students make fond memories and solidify friendships during these days.

    If parties with large groups are not your student鈥檚 vibe, or they have been there, done that, talk to them about Alternative Spring Break. ASB programs at many universities all over the country allow your student to get away for the week while also doing good in an area they feel passionate about. There are ASB trips that focus on work with refugees, preservation projects and more.

    Going home or staying on campus are perfectly valid choices too鈥攖here is no pressure to have a flashy experience. It is all about doing what feels right for them. 鈥淒o you鈥 is what we say to ours.

    One separate note: Admissions for the Class of 2028 are in full swing. Prospective students are receiving notifications and making decisions about their next four years. Please commit to attending an admissions event in your local area. Engage with prospective families and offer your experience as a guide for them in making this major decision. Welcome those who have committed to be Commodores, and relive the joy of the end of senior year!

  • March - Spring Fever

    As spring fever takes hold, it's not uncommon for students to think others are doing better than they are. Emotions run high as the semester draws to a close. If you observe campus life, you'll find every conceivable emotion. How is your student responding to this phase of their journey? Let's put some perspective on some of these gnawing emotions.听

    It鈥檚 March, a poignant time for seniors as they begin to recognize their 鈥渓asts鈥 and shift their focus toward life after 国产原创. Many are grappling with feelings of anxiety, heartbreak and fear as they navigate the job market or await acceptance into graduate programs. Seeing peers celebrate their successes can exacerbate these emotions, leading to questions of why they haven鈥檛 reached the same milestones. Meanwhile, sophomores and juniors are feeling pressure to secure summer internships, which can add to the sense of urgency and comparison. First-year students, too, may be silently struggling with imposter syndrome, feeling overwhelmed by academic and social challenges.

    Comparison is the thief of all joy. For some seniors, the contrast between those who secured job offers months ago and those still searching can be stark, amplifying stress levels for both students and parents. However, our role is to provide support without adding to their stress. We must remind them鈥攁nd ourselves鈥攏ot to succumb to the trap of comparison and to trust in their own journey. Model calmness and be their anchor (pun not intended) amid all the emotion. 国产原创 students do find jobs and get into grad schools. It is not a race, nor does it mean the sooner you secure this, the better you are. Every door and window closed only clears the path to what was meant to be. And let鈥檚 be real: When, where or what your offer is does not define the rest of your life. Let鈥檚 take a step back and enjoy the last semester, graduation plans and celebrations. Above all, let鈥檚 remind our students鈥攁nd ourselves鈥攖o focus on living in the present moment, finding joy in the journey, and trusting that their paths will unfold as they鈥檙e meant to.

    Now for some practical advice: Network, network, network. There is no shame in networking, and like it or not, it鈥檚 what fuels economies. You and your student can network within the 国产原创 community. Speak to everyone, ask pertinent questions and practice鈥攜es, practice鈥攖he art of networking both digitally and face-to-face. Refer to the PAFA Perspectives January 2024 edition with more tips and leads on job hunting and internships.

    Sophomores and juniors, driven by their high-achieving nature, are actively seeking internships. It鈥檚 true that the journey begins early, typically in the fall semester. Ultimately, it鈥檚 all about networking and immersing oneself in opportunities. It involves navigating an intricate landscape of events hosted by the Career Center, on-campus company information sessions, professional society and club-sponsored public events, and utilizing platforms such as Handshake and LinkedIn. Furthermore, the pervasive habit of comparing oneself to others compounds the process. Don鈥檛 get too worked up about what others have or are doing. Encourage your student to remain focused on their own path and timeline.

    First-year students, and students at all levels, often experience imposter syndrome, or what some psychologists call 鈥渄uck syndrome.鈥 This refers to the idea that individuals may appear calm and composed on the surface, much like a duck gliding smoothly on water, but underneath they are paddling furiously to keep up with the demands and pressures they face. It鈥檚 important to recognize that there鈥檚 no shame in admitting this and seeking help.

    As a parent, it can be heart-wrenching when your student reaches out, feeling lost and struggling to find their place. Whether it鈥檚 difficulty forming friendships, keeping up academically or facing rejection from a desired club or organization, it鈥檚 tough to witness them grappling with disappointment and self-doubt. Rejection, especially during events like Greek rush, can feel deeply personal and deliver a significant blow to their self-esteem. They may start to question themselves and all the choices they have made.

    In these moments, it鈥檚 crucial to resist the urge to swoop in and fix everything. All we can do is watch and encourage from the sidelines (and that is hard). We want to see them, hug them and feed them. Instead, encourage your student to confront their challenges head-on. While it may be tempting to visit campus frequently or bring them home often, it鈥檚 important for them to learn to navigate these difficulties independently and utilize the resources available to them. Indeed, too much interference can suggest we don鈥檛 have confidence in them to figure it out for themselves and could contribute to feelings of inadequacy.

    Encourage them to immerse themselves in social activities, even if it means stepping out of their comfort zone and trying again and again. Joining clubs and organizations can provide valuable opportunities for connection and personal growth. Encourage them to be bold and open in choosing clubs. Websites like offer a comprehensive list of available clubs, while resources like the can offer support and advice.

    Academically, encourage them to seek assistance from teaching assistants and professors, take advantage of office hours and consider forming study groups with classmates. Additional support for writing and tutoring are available through resources such as the 国产原创 Writing Studio and Tutoring Services.

    If they鈥檙e struggling with their well-being, encourage them to reach out to Student Care Coordination, even if appointments are initially booked up. This office helps students navigate and connect with campus and community resources that will address challenges that relate to academic, personal, emotional, medical, financial or any other needs.

    Parenting young adults involves a shift in roles. While we may want to shield our children from life鈥檚 challenges, ultimately our role becomes one of support, encouragement, and providing a foundation for growth. It鈥檚 about cheering them on, being a stable presence, and allowing them the space to navigate life鈥檚 difficulties and emerge stronger on the other side. Happy spring!

  • April - Important End of Semester Information

    It's hard to believe how quickly the spring semester has flown by. As we approach the end of another enriching academic year here at 国产原创, I wanted to touch base with you regarding some important dates and details to help ensure a smooth transition for your student.

    Although letting go is hard to do, encouraging your student to take ownership of their end-of-semester responsibilities will be an invaluable opportunity for them to demonstrate their independence and resilience. This time can understandably be hectic. Exams, preparations for next steps, packing up and organizing belongings can be daunting tasks. So, you may be surprised at how many of our students get the job done, independently of parents. Move-out is structured to allow students ample time to prepare.

    End of Year Key Dates:

    • Undergraduate classes end Monday, April 22, 2024
    • Undergraduate examinations and reading days: Tuesday, April 23 鈥 Thursday, May 2, 2024
    • Commencement: Friday, May 10, 2024
    • Residence halls close for freshmen, sophomores and juniors: Saturday, May 4, 2024, at 9:00 am
    • Residence halls close for graduating students: Saturday, May 11, 2024, at 1:00 pm

    is the schedule of exams. Your student can leave campus whenever they are done.

    There are three ways to move out of the dorms. First, do it yourself and move it all back home by driving or shipping it back. Second, do it yourself and move items to self-storage. Many students hire a rideshare or ask a friend with a car to get the items to the storage unit. They then do the same in August to move it all back to the dorm. Third, hire movers that move the items to storage in May and back in August. If you do the third option, I recommend taking pictures of everything packed up and labeled with name, university and count (box 1 or 8, box 2 of 8, etc.). For recommendations on storage units and moving/storage companies, do a search on our . Many parents have shared experiences about this.

    If you know ahead of time about extenuating circumstances that will prevent your student from moving out by these deadlines, have your student go to the YES portal to fill out a housing form and speak to their RA about it.

    Remind your student to prioritize self-care during this busy period. Nothing else can be accomplished if mental and emotional well-being fall to the wayside. Encourage them to take breaks, get plenty of rest, and reach out for support if needed. The Center for Student Wellbeing provides many activities and programming during this time of year. Many parents send care packages to provide some stress relief and joy during this busy time. Try to have conversations with your student focusing on encouragement, affirmation and support, rather than focusing on grades, exams and summer opportunities. If any local residents have friendly pets, consider bringing them to campus. Research has shown that petting and playing with animals can significantly reduce stress levels. Previously, parents have coordinated on the regarding locations, dates, and times, and have kindly brought their pets to campus to the delight of our students. Your contribution to fostering a supportive and stress-relieving environment for our students is greatly appreciated.

    If your student will be staying in Nashville for the summer and is looking for housing, tell them there are many students that sublet apartments for the summer, they just have to ask around (maybe beyond their circle). Belmont students also do the same. 国产原创 rents out dorm rooms and there are Airbnb鈥檚 that might be options as well.

    May and Summer Semesters Dates:

    • Maymester Move Out: Maymester participants will have until Saturday, June 1, 2024, 9:00 am
    • Summer Session 1 Move In: Students participating in Summer Session 1 can move in starting on Sunday, June 2, 2024, at 12:00 pm.
    • Summer Session 1 Move Out: Summer Session 1 concludes on Saturday, July 6, 2024, at 9:00 am.
    • Summer Session 2 Move In: Students in Summer Session 2 can move in beginning on Sunday, July 7, 2024, at 12:00 pm.

    Summer Session 2 students who are residing in summer housing will be permitted to move directly into their fall on-campus housing assignments as early as Saturday, August 3 (dependent on spaces being ready for occupancy). Students with fall assignments in buildings utilized for the summer or undergoing summer facilities projects may be unable to move until Saturday, August 10 or Sunday, August 11. Additional information will be provided to students in July.

    As we enter this final stretch, we wish everyone a strong finish, a sense of well-being and satisfaction in their accomplishments for the school year. And, that goes for parents, too! Remember, you are doing a great job!

  • May - Starting Summer

    As our students wrap up exams and complete the academic year, We would like to extend a heartfelt congratulations to all of you. Each year brings its own set of challenges, and this one has been no exception. As they pack up dorm rooms and look forward to summer, we encourage you to give them all the space and time they need to recharge and care for themselves. Here are a few things to keep in mind for parents.

    This year has been a significant transition, especially for freshmen. It's remarkable how quickly time flies鈥攋ust nine months ago, you wondered how your student would fare "on their own." Many of you may be preoccupied about internships, jobs and graduate schools. The rigor of academics and social involvement is still taking a toll as they end the semester. So it's important to decompress and reflect on their achievements together. Allow them to share their thoughts and savor them. Point out the glows and objectively think about grows. Are there any lessons learned? Celebrate what they are proud of, even if you have to highlight it for them. Students can be quite humble and self deprecating.

    Regardless of where you are in this journey, enjoy some well-deserved time off with your students. There will be opportunities to network, polish off that resume, or take a summer class. But block off some time in the calendar where conversations about college or life after college DON鈥橳 occur. Dare we say, disconnect from 国产原创 (gasp)! New roles and responsibilities can wait. Because in a short time, your students will be back in Nashville, ready to dive into their studies. And when that time comes, the 国产原创 community will be there to encourage, support and challenge them! Jeff and I are honored to continue writing the Parent Perspective for SY 24-25. We hope the topics have been informative and useful. You may connect with us through our Official Parent Facebook page throughout the summer. After that, we'll pick up again in August. Until then, we wish you a happy and restful summer!

  • May - Senior Parent Spotlight

    As you stand on the brink of your children's graduation, reflection of the journey you鈥檝e all been on together is inevitable. Your seniors began their 国产原创 experience in the midst of the unprecedented challenges brought about by the COVID-19 pandemic in 2020. It was a time of uncertainty, upheaval, and adaptation unlike any other. Yet, despite the trials they faced, your children emerged stronger, wiser, and more resilient than ever before.

    The past four years have been a rollercoaster of emotions for all of us, but especially for you. Our daughter graduated in 2021 and we have a current junior. We have witnessed your seniors experience significant changes in normalcy, grappling with the loss of traditional experiences and milestones. But in the face of adversity, they have also found opportunities for growth, development, and personal transformation. Your children have flourished academically, intellectually, and socially, thanks to your unwavering support and the guidance of the 国产原创 community. They have navigated virtual classes, adapted to hybrid learning models, and embraced new ways of connecting with their peers and professors. Through it all, they have demonstrated remarkable courage, perseverance, and determination. We stand in awe.

    Today, as you prepare to celebrate their graduation from 国产原创, we hope you couldn't be prouder of the world-class education they have earned. They have not only earned a prestigious degree but have also gained invaluable skills, knowledge, and experiences that will propel them forward into the world as leaders and innovators.

    As parents, you have played a crucial role in your children's journey, providing love, encouragement, and support every step of the way. You have cheered them on through triumphs and setbacks, celebrated their achievements, and comforted them in moments of disappointment. You have modeled strength in the face of challenges and positivity in the wave of negativity. Your own sacrifices and dedication have been instrumental in their success, and for that, you deserve to share in the pride and joy of this momentous occasion. As you reflect on the past four years with incredible pride and accomplishment, cherish the memories created together as a 国产原创 family. Celebrate the resilience, determination, and spirit of the graduating seniors, knowing that they are well-equipped to make a positive impact on the world. We all look forward to the bright future that awaits every one of them

    Looking ahead, we know that your children's futures are bright and promising. 国产原创 will always be there for them as they navigate the next chapter of their lives. We encourage them to stay connected to their alma mater by joining the 国产原创 Alumni Association and participating in city chapters (all over the world) and Hubs around the country (Atlanta, New York, South Florida, Houston). They will always have a community of 国产原创 alumni to support and uplift them. They are Commodores for life.

    Congratulations to the 国产原创 Class of 2024 and their proud parents. May their journey ahead be filled with success, happiness, and fulfillment. Because, come what may, they鈥檝e got this!